9/21/2024 Greetings,

I took part in today's PADD session and had the opportunity to listen to a panel of speakers discuss the impact and Positive Alternatives to Dangerous and Destructive Decisions (PADD). Our session was initiated by facilitator Pat Wilson and Sergeant Easton, who offered a wealth of informative knowledge on the statistical aspects of driving, as well as behaviors and decision-making that pose risks and dangers. His dedication to the training, as a father of six young men, was evident. His dedication to making a difference in people's lives on the road is truly admirable. The most notable aspect of his presentation, for me, was the enlightening data on Maryland's commendable seatbelt usage rates, as well as the NHTSA's steadfast efforts to tackle distracted driving and their ambitious aim of eliminating all casualties by 2050. Discovering the three different forms of distractions and their potential consequences on personal and public safety. Distractions, be they visual, manual, or mental, are something we have all experienced at one time or another. Promoting safety requires us to be mindful and prioritize the well-being of others.

Next, we listened to Ms. Jenny Weaver as she shared her heartbreaking experience of driving while distracted, which brought tears to my eyes. I felt immense sadness both as a mom and a parent, witnessing her experiences and the family's loss of Lou. Her act of sharing their heart-wrenching story is not just a blessing, but it is also saving others, including myself. Long after the session ended, I couldn't forget the impactful stories of both her and Deb. It's hard to put into words how I felt as a parent and mom. As I listened and contemplated my actions, my emotions became overwhelming. I used the light from my phone to grab a bag and ensure my sister wouldn't get sick in the backseat. The result did not justify the effort or cost. Not any of it. The impact of this was beyond measure. Even a few seconds can make a difference. I paused to take a breath and focus on the EMT who had just arrived to share photos and stories of different accidents, including those that occurred in various weather conditions. He also discussed the life-saving equipment they use in these situations.

The session was a combination of emotional intensity and valuable insights. Moving forward, I not only aim to make wiser choices but also intend to use my momentary lapse in judgment as an opportunity to educate my family. I aim to encourage them to take part in similar courses that offer direct exposure to the experiences of affected families, insights from dedicated educators, and a chance to observe the everyday consequences of such decisions. Seeing the anguish on my face, my husband leaned in to give me a comforting kiss during the session. In that speciXic moment, my tears were a result of being able to see him and our children, and understanding the immense loss and lasting impact that so many others have suffered. Being consistently mindful of safety and consistently making good decisions is crucial, without exception. This encounter has had a permanent impact on me.

I appreciate the panelists for generously sharing their time, personal experiences, and pain with me. Changed forever,
Ernestine J